If you’ve sacrificed doing something lately which brings you joy because you’re busy at work, you’re not alone. It’s how we’ve become. For most people, it’s a way of life. Their norm. The more technology takes over our lives, it frees us up with more time to fill. It’s unfortunate that we fill this extra time with cramming in more work.
A few weeks ago, I watched Shonda Rhimes’ TEDTalk. It got me thinking… What was my hum? What brought me real joy?
I thought about all the times I had skipped running after work because I had emails to get through. Or Sunday afternoon naps I had missed because of an important presentation. Or declining lunch invitations with friends because I had so much to get through.
At the end of May, I signed up with a new running coach. My training program has meant trying something new – less mileage but more consistency. In winter, that has seen me leaving the office early to get a run in while it’s still light & also finding an alternative running route closer to work.
In addition to that, I’m considering buying a small business. The homework and research around what this would mean has been all consuming. It frightens and excites me.
Not wanting to fail at either of these has meant relooking my day and my priorities. Having a vision means that you do look at things differently. Work has become just one part of my day. It means I’m thinking about something else other than work issues all the time. There’s a spark that has been reignited deep within me. It’s a hum.
If you watched Shonda’s talk, you’ll understand what I mean when I say that the more time you make to play, the more focused you are at work.
The difference it has made in my life is astounding. I’m finding my hum.
When something else other than work occupies your mind, you start to know what really matters. If work is all you have in your life, then it is time to reassess your priorities. You need to start playing. You work better when you play.
It could be playing with your kids, reading a book, spending time with friends or simply… going for a run. Find your hum.
I needed to read this as I head back to the real world today!
It takes practice to get it right, but I’m eventually getting there! Get this, I’ve been taking a pic of the sun set every day (trying to) so that I can prove to myself I’m getting home before it’s dark. Making time is the hardest thing because there’s always work! Hope today isn’t too long!!
Great reminder this post. Thinking, what makes me happy
It helps when I write things down and often, it’s not the big things. For example, spending an afternoon visiting my mom brings me huge comfort & joy. Or even feeding the birds in my garden.
Love it – so true!
Takes discipline to change but rewards are worth it hey!