I sat at my desk last week a different person to the one I was just a few months ago. Butterflies fluttered around in my stomach and felt like I was tiptoeing on clouds ready to leap off a cliff at the same time.
KK and I have successfully started our own small business. We are officially entrepreneurs!
No one around me noticed the change
(or perhaps panic in my face). People are busy and there’s very little time nowadays for anyone to stop and check-in on one another. It’s a pity because I’m not the only one standing at the edge of that cliff.
As I gazed around the desks, it dawned on me that I would not be where I am today had it not been for many of my colleagues. Their support, friendship and lessons over the years has grown me into the person I am today.
Pulling this off would also not have been possible without all the skills I had picked up during my 15 years of service at Standard Bank.
- I’ve learnt the power of networking. Of relationship-building.
- I understand the brand and how important it is to be true to what it is I’m selling.
- I know how to assess the market & be aware of my competitors.
- I’ve picked up key skills such as negotiation and buy-in.
- I guess what excites me the most is the social media and engagement with potential customers.
- I’ve also been taught that while the good times come, so do the bad and that it’s only by putting hard work into something that you see success.
- Most of all, I’ve learnt patience. Things happen when the time is right.
The view from the 4th floor of my office. Development is happening all around me.
As the bank grows, so do I. The courses I go on, the people I interact with. All of it adds to moulding me into a cleverer thinker, to be more strategic and constantly have a business-like mindset to every decision I make.
The more I grow at work, the more my business benefits. And because I’m eager to make a success out of both, the more effort I put in.
It’s a win win situation.
Call it a midlife crisis, inspiration from a TED Talk or just mid-year review, but I've been on this mission to make time for more quality in my life. Notice that I said "make time" and not "find time". You will never find time, trust me on this one.
In order to make time, you need to do a combination of the following:
- Plan your day. Make sure you know where the gaps are and which meetings at work will be productive or not.
- Be selfish with your time. When you say yes to every meeting, every interruption and every invitation, you don't have anything left for you.
- Make sure you're allocating enough quality time towards doing the things that enrich your life and make you happy.
To force myself to make time, I've been committed to getting home before the sun sets. I've taken a photo every day to prove that it's possible.
I've made time to bake in the middle of the week.
I've walked the dogs when I've arrived home from work.
I've even ensured that I look after myself physically and get my hair done on a regular Friday afternoon. There's no better feeling after a busy week to kickstart the weekend feeling fresh and beautiful!
More importantly I've made time to run and stick to my training programme. That's the single thing that I didn't sacrifice. Guess what? I ran a race on Saturday and was thrilled with my time! Just 2 minutes off my PB!
It pays off and the rewards come.
Make time for yourself and the things that matter in your life!
And just like that, Autumn is officially here. Last week I was still wearing sandals and strappy dresses to work but on my run on Sunday morning, I could definitely feel that fresh chill in the air.
In my mind, the only positive aspect that comes with a change in season, is well… change itself. It’s a time of reflection. A time to make decisions and do things differently in my life.
So three things come to mind:
- I’ve relooked my eating plan and made a few adjustments. Smaller portions, more veggies and perhaps less wine on the weekends (for now).
- I’m starting off the month of May with a number of work responsibilities having moved out of my control to another team. That’s brought about huge changes to my day and a readjustment of priorities. Time to refocus on new projects.
- I’ve also been doing some assessments of my running and redefining my running goals now that Two Oceans has come & gone. If I’m enjoying the casual run, what am I still training for?
I’m not a cold weather person. The dry skin, the static hair, the layers of clothing all irritate me.
But the colder weather brings with it fleecy blankets in front of movies and soups with piping hot bread smothered in melting butter. (Oops, about that eating plan!)
Mmm, something I can definitely look forward to!
When I talk to people about my running, I always slip in the fact that I ‘walk run’. It’s as if I don’t want to mislead anyone into thinking that I’m actually capable of running non-stop for kilometers on end. My pace is slow so telling people I walk means I don’t have to explain myself.
But I noticed something today about my running pace during the Alan Robb road race that I wasn’t even concentrated on training for. I managed to run almost the entire way for 15kms at a steady consistent pace! I hardly walked!
I stopped at one or two water stations and walked on the very big uphill (on a very flat route). Other than that, I ran!
Late last year, I remembered trying to run 20 minutes non-stop. It took me over three weeks to get it right. But since then, I’ve forgotten about it.
Something must’ve worked. Was it the exercises from bio Mari? The stretching homework? The weekly runs? Hell, whatever it is, I’m thrilled!
Quite ironic, I’m happy about something I didn’t even realize I was working on!
So true of life, we’re often so focused on things that we think matter and don’t realize all the positive progress were making in other areas of our lives.
Go me! ^5